He was what everyone deemed as an outsider. Maybe it's because of the way he looked or dressed, or how he acted. He was socially awkward, and no matter what he tried to do, he could never fit in. I didn't like him as a person. I couldn't stand how he would somehow sneak his … Continue reading Not Like Us
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Postpartum: When Does it Get Better?
Another post for Maternal Mental Health Week! Today is #SayitSaturday! I thought it was fitting to also use the Daily Prompt, "Better", and tie it all in. Anytime you find yourself in a tough spot, you always wonder, "When will it get better? When will this all be over?" This is so true when you're … Continue reading Postpartum: When Does it Get Better?
Postpartum: Loss of Identity (Pt 2)
A few weeks ago, I discussed how Postpartum Depression and Anxiety, coupled with the obvious changes that come with Motherhood, changed my own perspective and identity at work. If you've been following me on Twitter, you've noticed that I've been posting more because this week is Maternal Mental Health Week. Thus, I thought it would … Continue reading Postpartum: Loss of Identity (Pt 2)
5 Things I Learned as a New Mom
It's funny, but the moment you announce that you're pregnant, tons of advice (wanted and unwanted) come pouring in. All in good intention, but it can be overwhelming for a new mom-to-be. Despite this, it was not a surprise that I came to discover a few things on my own once I became a mother. … Continue reading 5 Things I Learned as a New Mom
Facing the Crowd – Solo!
One of the most anxiety inducing things for me is doing something new on my own. I don't have a lot of confidence in my own ability to conquer on my own. I also am fearful of being lost or not knowing what to do when I have to go to a new place that … Continue reading Facing the Crowd – Solo!
Postpartum: Loss of Identity (Pt 1)
Prior to my pregnancy, the definition of who I was relied primarily on what I do for a living. my work ethic, and what things I could do because of my job. If you asked me who I was, one of the first things I'd say is what I do, or alternatively, I'd state that … Continue reading Postpartum: Loss of Identity (Pt 1)
Sudden Changes
After my father had passed, I was stuck. The past years were a whirlwind of school, work, family, hospitals and more work. I wasn't focused on myself too much, and just really did what I could to keep chugging along. It also meant that I made unhealthy choices when it came to my own well-being. … Continue reading Sudden Changes
RBF or Cranky?
via Daily Prompt: Cranky I used to readily admit that I was a negative person - easily irritated, and never believed that things would just work out. I suppose it had a lot to do with my past and the experiences I've been through. I was perpetually cranky. When people questioned the irritable look on … Continue reading RBF or Cranky?
The Missing Piece
One by one, I examined the bursts of photographs. Each one had a different expression, a slight movement, a new reaction. My son had an animated face, and he was clearly not impressed by the impromptu photo shoot. Suddenly, I stopped. It was just an ordinary photo - a capture of my son glancing directly … Continue reading The Missing Piece
From the End to the Beginning
This weekend is strange. It is a rare occurrence in which I was facing two very distinct parts of the life cycle: birth and death. My husband’s uncle had been ill for a long time. It had come to the point where doctors had advised that there was nothing further that could be done, and … Continue reading From the End to the Beginning
This Mommy is Real 