It's been a while since I reported on my PPD / PPA experience. It may seem that I'm completely recovered. That's almost accurate. I have indeed gained a lot of confidence as a mother, and a lot of things no longer bother me like they used to. I've definitely come a long way. Yesterday, I … Continue reading Postpartum Win!
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Kindness Challenge Week 4: Kindness Role Models
This week's challenge involved focusing on kindness role models. In the most difficult moments of our lives, the kindness from others is of utmost importance. While there are so many kind people in my life, I really wanted to focus on one person. I met "Elle" while we were both in the thick of Postpartum … Continue reading Kindness Challenge Week 4: Kindness Role Models
5 Mommy Brain Moments
You've heard of "Pregnancy Brain" - that foggy, forgetful time that pregnant women experience. The simplest things seem to slip the mind, and you can't remember like you used to. Unfortunately, that forgetfulness doesn't completely go away. I'm finding that this is happening less as I grow accustomed to my new life and role. Nonetheless, … Continue reading 5 Mommy Brain Moments
Travel Diaries: Baby’s First Trip!
Four months ago, I would have been scared to go on a plane with my son. I was convinced he'd be the crying baby and I wouldn't know what to do. I was afraid I'd forget something he needed. I would have anxiety just thinking of it. After all, I was afraid to go to … Continue reading Travel Diaries: Baby’s First Trip!
Fleeting Memories
What do you remember about your mother? It had been quite some time since she passed, so at that moment, I wasn't sure how to answer. Years later, I find that the memories of who she was, and what she did when we were children, are slowly fading away. I sit and sometimes wonder, what … Continue reading Fleeting Memories
Postpartum: When Does it Get Better?
Another post for Maternal Mental Health Week! Today is #SayitSaturday! I thought it was fitting to also use the Daily Prompt, "Better", and tie it all in. Anytime you find yourself in a tough spot, you always wonder, "When will it get better? When will this all be over?" This is so true when you're … Continue reading Postpartum: When Does it Get Better?
Friday Feelings = Knackered
He didn't want to sleep from 10pm - midnight last night. Then, he woke up at 3am because he was HANGRY. An hour and a half later, it's time to get ready for work. via Daily Prompt: Knackered
5 Things I Learned as a New Mom
It's funny, but the moment you announce that you're pregnant, tons of advice (wanted and unwanted) come pouring in. All in good intention, but it can be overwhelming for a new mom-to-be. Despite this, it was not a surprise that I came to discover a few things on my own once I became a mother. … Continue reading 5 Things I Learned as a New Mom
Postpartum: Loss of Identity (Pt 1)
Prior to my pregnancy, the definition of who I was relied primarily on what I do for a living. my work ethic, and what things I could do because of my job. If you asked me who I was, one of the first things I'd say is what I do, or alternatively, I'd state that … Continue reading Postpartum: Loss of Identity (Pt 1)
The Color of My Skin
My sister and I are like ebony and ivory. I have olive toned skin, meaning that I have brownish, but not very dark, toned coloring. My sister takes after my mother and has much fairer skin. This seemingly small difference between us has secretly become one of the foundations of my low self-esteem. My sister … Continue reading The Color of My Skin
This Mommy is Real 