It's funny, but the moment you announce that you're pregnant, tons of advice (wanted and unwanted) come pouring in. All in good intention, but it can be overwhelming for a new mom-to-be. Despite this, it was not a surprise that I came to discover a few things on my own once I became a mother. … Continue reading 5 Things I Learned as a New Mom
Motherhood
Facing the Crowd – Solo!
One of the most anxiety inducing things for me is doing something new on my own. I don't have a lot of confidence in my own ability to conquer on my own. I also am fearful of being lost or not knowing what to do when I have to go to a new place that … Continue reading Facing the Crowd – Solo!
Postpartum: Loss of Identity (Pt 1)
Prior to my pregnancy, the definition of who I was relied primarily on what I do for a living. my work ethic, and what things I could do because of my job. If you asked me who I was, one of the first things I'd say is what I do, or alternatively, I'd state that … Continue reading Postpartum: Loss of Identity (Pt 1)
The Color of My Skin
My sister and I are like ebony and ivory. I have olive toned skin, meaning that I have brownish, but not very dark, toned coloring. My sister takes after my mother and has much fairer skin. This seemingly small difference between us has secretly become one of the foundations of my low self-esteem. My sister … Continue reading The Color of My Skin
Postpartum Anxiety: Small Things are Bigger
As a nursing mom, I am given access to a small locked room in the office for pumping purposes. Since I’m currently the only mom using the room, I have the freedom to use it as I please. The only other personnel who have keys are the office manager and cleaning staff. The office manager … Continue reading Postpartum Anxiety: Small Things are Bigger
Is this a Postpartum Relapse?
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health professional. Methods or statements included in this entry are from my own personal experiences, and are of my own opinion. Please consult a mental health professional should you need more personalized, detailed assistance. I returned to work from maternity leave part time at the beginning of this month. … Continue reading Is this a Postpartum Relapse?
Postpartum Depression / Anxiety
I admit. The title of this entry is not the most positive, and it's not the one that someone wants to immediately read. It probably doesn't apply to many of you, but I thought it would be appropriate to post. It's bit lengthy, but I wanted to detail my own experience with PPA / PPD. … Continue reading Postpartum Depression / Anxiety
This Mommy is Real 